As we become healthier, we learn to identify what it is, exactly, that we want and/or need. This is a mighty challenge for some people. If we have been thwarted in our efforts to have our needs or wants satisfied, we may expect to be denied. This can result, in future, in our working ourselves up into a frenzy before we even ask. As we practice, we will improve in our responses. We can learn how to ask without the anger. To discover that, sometimes, others will simply provide us with what we want. Other times, it may not be as easy. But we can figure out the next step when this happens. It does not mean it will not happen. It means that we must struggle. However, we get better, and more creative, as we learn to solve our own problems. In fact, we can also ask for help. It may be that the Universe intends for us to combine our efforts. Often, two heads are better than one. Regardless, let us focus our energies on clarifying our goals. Then let us expect cooperation. Begin with God. Sometimes we wonder what a foreign force can do for us. We learn how that may help, as well. Having faith in Something greater can seem magical. It will definitely be baffling, as our faith develops and we see changes. So, begin by asking God. Know He is involved and He will help you. If you don’t believe in God, try believing in Spirit. Or Universe. This power is benevolent, and to believe so gives you power, as well.
Try asking for what you need before you become angry about imagined responses. Save your energy for when it happens. Then ask Universe again. Although you may not need to. You may be pleasantly surprised… getting exactly what you wanted!